It’s a complete coincidence that I read this book during what I now know is the year of the fortieth anniversary of Betjeman’s death. Last week, BBC4 had a ‘Betjeman evening’, showing some old films and interviews. I’d already, while reading, watched my DVD of
Metroland and found on YouTube his programme about parish churches in the diocese of Norwich. The part of Betjeman evening I did watch was an ancient
Monitor programme about Betjeman and Philip Larkin. I found it contrived and unenlightening. Incidentally, if you ever see anything about Larkin on TV, it will include a clip from this programme of him going to work at the library. I must have seen that section about a dozen times. Betjeman and Larkin admired each other’s poetry because it was intelligible.
John Betjeman was born in 1906. Like his contemporary, Evelyn Waugh, he rather looked down on his own perfectly respectable middle-class family and came to enjoy the company (and the homes) of his social superiors. He was unhappy at Marlborough and left Oxford without a degree (largely due to his tutor, C S Lewis, who obviously didn’t like him). In spite of this, he was widely read and very knowledgeable about architecture for someone his age. His first proper job was writing for
The Architectural Review, before being asked to edit the Shell guides to English counties. He married Penelope Chetwode and they had two children. Being highly susceptible, he was always falling in love but these crushes rarely developed into affairs until he met the aristocratic Elizabeth Cavendish, who became his mistress and later his carer, until he died. This Penelope/John/Elizabeth love triangle was never resolved. He had a great capacity for friendship and had a very wide circle of friends.
The longest-lasting friendship was probably with John Piper and his wife Myfanwy (Myfanwy of the poems). The two men went church crawling together and collaborated on the Shell guides. The Osbert Lancasters were also lifelong friends. Evelyn Waugh was always trying to convert him to Roman Catholicism and Betjeman was devastated when Penelope did convert because going to church and working in the parish at Uffington was something they shared, He remained a devout High Anglican (he said, Catholic, believing it to be the true catholic church). He managed to be friends with the Mitfords, Philip Larkin, Kingsley Amis, the younger generation of Auberon Waugh and Richard Ingrams and even Princess Margaret. How did he do it? ‘Blinding charm’, according to ‘Debo’, the late dowager Duchess of Devonshire.
( in which I go on a bit )